- Synchronicity is the experience of two or more events that are apparently causally unrelated or unlikely to occur together by chance but that are observed to occur together in a meaningful manner. The concept of synchronicity was first described by Swiss psychologist Carl Gustav Jung in the 1920s. Jung would likely assess the “dead body across the hall” as a triggering event in a series of events that has inevitably resulted in me taking what some might call “rather drastic action”.
- Three things about which trauma / bio-hazardous waste remediation experts seem to agree are: the smell of death and decomposition is unforgettable;
the smell penetrates everything so covering it with deodorizers doesn’t get rid of it for long; and once you’ve solved the real odour problem you often must deal with the ‘psychological’ odour. I must say I fully concur with the experts and consequently, I reflect back that the best advice I got about how to get rid of the dead body odour was: “move”.
- I can clearly see that it was not an unrelated event when, about ten days ago I had occasion to attend a bar called Vista 18 at the top of a downtown hotel. Vista 18 has a spectacular panoramic view of the Juan de Fuca Strait where cruise ships and Asia / Canada container ships transit to and from the Pacific, against a backdrop of the permanently snow-capped mountains in Washington State. That view is similar to, but in truth not quite as good as, the view from the apartment I shared as a roommate on Simcoe Street. And I said to myself: “Self, are you crazy? This is what living in Victoria is all about and if you can get this view….you must go for it.”
- Kismet kicked into high gear and within days a Simcoe apartment with a made-to-order view was suddenly coming available. With less than an hour to spare I queue-jumped another prospective tenant, sealed the deal, arranged for a mover and gave my notice-to-vacate from Chester Avenue.
- More than just a pretty view, the Lady Simcoe is a 55+ building (status for which I increasingly exceed the qualifications) featuring social facilities, a lovely garden in the space between the Lady and her companion Lord Simcoe building and as karma would decree, several also-well-qualified friends are already in residence. So, it’s a good move for me, I’m going for it and I must say, thank you, dead neighbour I’m so sorry this didn’t work out better for you too.
- Serendipitously, validation for my decision came from the friend who authored that one-word piece of advice (“move”). When he recently stopped by my apartment, he reported an overwhelming hallway smell of orangey-disinfectant with a distinctive undertone. He later admitted that his stomach heaved because he knew exactly what that undertone was all about.
- As organized as I am, it won’t surprise many of you that I’ve already got photos of the view to share, taken last time I lived at The Lady.
- So, friends, I’m breakin’ out the boxes and the move is on!


June 27, 2011 at 6:30 am
Synchronicity . . . karma . . . good luck . . . silver lining . . . whatever you call it, all the best in your new abode.
I would love to see more pictures of the view from your windows.
Maria
June 27, 2011 at 2:54 pm
I am glad the universe worked in your favour and I hope the move goes smoothly. A nice glimpse into your life…
June 28, 2011 at 10:50 am
Hi Barb
Hope you’re having a great day, enjoyed reading the blog.
Jim F
June 28, 2011 at 12:18 pm
Happy to hear that the stars aligned for you… what a view! Nicely done, and I hope your move goes well.